By Jeff Damulira
Rhonda Byrne made some insightful perspective on removing the negative feeling about money and think about the power of sharing money and the powerful effect from giving. For example, here is some useful testimonial from Rhonda Byrne from her book: Think my situation with money was about as bad as anybody's can get. I wanted money to finish the film, I knew the law of attraction, and I knew I had to feel good about money to bring it to me. But it wasn't easy because every single day I was confronted by the mounting debt, with people calling for money, and had no idea how I would be able to pay my staff's wages. So I took drastic action.I walked to an ATM and drew out several hundred dollars from my credit card account. I needed that money so badly to pay bills and buy food, but I took the money in my hand, walked down a busy street, and I gave the money away to people on the street.I put a $50 bill in my hand, and as I walked, I looked at each person's face as they walked toward me, trying to decide who to give the money to. I wanted to give money to every single person, but I only had a certain amount. I let my heart choose and I gave the money away to all kinds of people. It was the first time in my life I had felt love for money. But it wasn't the money itself that caused me to feel love, it was giving the money to people that made me feel love for money. It was a Friday, and afterward I had tears of joy all weekend about how good it felt to give money.On Monday afternoon something astounding happened: my bank account received $25,000 through the most incredible sequence of events. That$25,000 literally fell out of the sky into my life and into my account. I had bought some shares in a friend's company years earlier, and I had forgotten about them because they had never increased in value. But that Monday morning I received a phone call asking me if I would sell my shares as they had skyrocketed in value, and by Monday afternoon the money for the shares was in my account.I didn't set out to give money away to bring more money to me. I gave it away so I would feel love about money. I wanted to change a lifetime of feeling bad about money. If I had given away that money in order to get money, it would never have worked, because it would have meant I was motivated by feeling a lack of money, which is negative, instead of being motivated by love. But if you give money away, and if you feel love when you give it, most surely it will return to you. One man wrote a check and donated $100 to a charity he felt was really worthwhile. Within ten hours of writing the check, he closed the largest sale he had ever had in his company. Analysis by Jeff Damulira He really made some good points on restoring positive karma from negative karma. I love the perspective of Dharma such as giving more, helping others more often and raising the vibration. Which is completely true; that good and positive experiences can manifest into your life; by giving more often. For example, the more I started giving; the more positive things started to manifest. By Jeff Damulira
Reciprocity of doing favours works effectively on mutual level. Because, if a generous person does a favour, without some kind of reward or reciprocated favour- this lead to a sinking level of dissatisfaction. Therefore, there has to be a mutual effort to satisfy the other person- otherwise, the basic principle of longevity of influence won't work.Because, being generous with a taker doesn't lead to satisfaction; it leads to dissatisfaction. Therefore, generosity and satisfaction, comes mainly from dealing with another generous person. By Jeff Damulira I truly believe that the next general election will be won by a leader that has relentlessly focused and campaigned for the interest and needs of people from different socioeconomic status and different cultures. But, if we observe closely on the entire population and split into different ages, experiences and education. We can analyse the difference in statistics on correlation between which political leader has won the hearts and minds of majority of the population. Despite, right wing members in conservative party becoming less passionate, in comparison to left wing members of labour party- because, from a psychological point of view, the less enemies you have, the more complacent you become. As, you can see Jeremy Corbyn having a vast legion of enemies from media to right wing members from the opposition and his own party. But, it seems to have an paradox effect, since he has consistently campaigned for fighting against social and economic inequality, injustice and campaigning for a fairer society for the wide population. Since, I have watched television more often, I have come to conclusion, that a lot more people are having certain problem; that needs to be resolved and it seems like Jeremy Corbyn promised to deliver his solution to fix those problems. Nevertheless, a leader that can fix more and more problems, will have a higher leverage in comparison to the opposition. By Jeff Damulira
Giving consistently creates more reward again and again. For example, the more I kept helping others from one organization to another to online; the more good things and positive experiences started to manifest in my life. Because, giving and being generous creates a positive momentum; that expands and expands like a formless water in a oceans that moves freely. The more you give, the more you will receive in the long run. By Jeff Damulira
Marie Mancini saw what distinguished King Louis XIV- his high ideals and romantic nature—thereby, held a mirror to reflect his yearning to be a godlike king—Sun King(48 Laws of Power, 1998). Nevertheless, Marie Mancini was master player in persuasion and influence, since she became King Louis XIV's favourite mistress— she knew how to flatter and boost his levels of confidence. Because, the more we adapt to the ideals, interest or hobbies of the other person, the more influence we will garner in the process. However, it's about intercepting inside the needs and interest of others; therefore, they will feel flattered and delighted to keep us around. For example, It could be even encouraging and uplifting their spirit and mood with words that other people would love to hear and feel good about themselves—like Marie Mancini did with King Louis XIV. Other examples such as learning and mastering their own languages, dress style, traditions, taste in variety of music, films and games. However, There is an broad spectrum to diversify to find some common similarity such as travelling, wine tasting and dancing. Another example is based on personal experience, such as interacting with my friend called Edward, who used to live in Germany. Lo behold, he happens to speak French and German, thereby I made an effort to greet him in both languages and we managed to galvanised mutual smiles. Moreover, it comes down to how much you love studying and spying on humans in general— being a master psychologist in persuasion and influence. By Jeff Damulira
I was having an interesting and brief chat on twitter with Carrie Heinze Musgrove, who is a psychotherapist. The topic was based on helping others too much can be taken for granted. But, it depends on the individual and how much they acknowledge our help. Therefore, if your dealing with someone who is taker and rarely appreciate your help, then it's a wise choice to cut them off. Because, law of reciprocity cannot work without mutual contribution from both party. Therefore, there has to be boundaries and limit, depending on the person your dealing with. Thereby, the law of reciprocity has to be practised with the right people and the right moment; because, trying to please everyone is a recipe of disaster. |
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